Friday, October 30, 2009

Bridesmaid Cards, Part Three

So to recap, I've been slowly but surely working on cards for my bridesmaids (see: will you be my bridesmaid cards and bridesmaids cards part 2) and it hasn't really come together until just recently.



































TADA!! Two of them will be hand delivered because they live within a day's drive but the other one will have to be sent via USPS. Even though it's being sent in a padded envelope I'm hoping that USPS handles it with more care than they do my mail because on more than one occasion I've gotten bent mail.

I know that at least one of them will be saying yes but the other two are giving me a little trouble because I expect them to wear a dress for the day. While I could understand if I picked out something poufy, neon or expensive I'm letting them decide on the style and between the three of them pick either white, blue or brown as the color. So what I've decided to do is sit down with them and figure why and give them a deadline to say yes to wearing a dress or I'm not having them as bridesmaids and ask my four sisters to be bridesmaids instead. Sure that seems a little cold but I feel like I'm being more than fair and I hope that it doesn't all somehow blow up in my face.

Furthermore, if I do end up asking my sisters to be bridesmaids I would also want my fiancee's sister and only sibling to feel involved as well. Sure I'm having her daughter be the flower girl and I think she will be 3 by the time we get married but I worry that she'll have performance anxiety. So if it looks like either of these are the case I plan on asking his sister to walk down the aisle with her.

Other than that I'm still planning away, we'll see where everything goes from here.

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